Love Challenge

Love Challenge Day 4- Be thoughtful

You are the answer to every prayer I’ve offered. You are a song, a dream, a whisper, and I don’t know how I could have lived without you for as long as I have.” ― Nicholas Sparks “Young Noah: So it’s not gonna be easy. It’s going to be really hard; we’re gonna have to work […]

Love Challenge Day 2 – Active Love, Do something that will be written on the tablet of your hearts.

“If patience is how love reacts in order to minimize  a negative circumstance, kindness is how love acts to maximize a positive circumstance. Patience avoids a problem. Kindness creates a blessing. Kindness thinks ahead then takes the FIRST step. When operating from kindness you are careful how you treat your spouse (loved one)…even if you […]

Love Challenge Day 1 – Patient Love

I do highly recommend you buy a copy of the Love Dare and do it 1 month every single year. The greatest gift God gives you is the heart of another to blend with your own and love the way He does. The Bible teaches that our children must grow up and leave and cleave […]

On your mark, get set, love!

Tomorrow begins Love Challenge 2019! Why do the love challenge? To enrich and strengthen your marriage. To give the best gift to your spouse…a renewal of your commitment, devotion, and love. To grow. When is it ever a bad time to grow? We train and practice in athletics. What football team plays without very intense […]

Challenge for Men

I have posted surveys and challenges on this blog before. Once I surveyed people to ask what their definition was of love. It received a lot of response and feedback. People want to love and be loved. Today, I post a survey for the men: Husbands, who is your wife? Why do you love her? […]

Men’s brains vs. women’s brains – it’s not a competition.

It helps to understand the differences in our brains! Men have about 6 times more gray matter than women. This is the brain’s processing center. Women have about 10 times more white matter than men. Women’s brains are more complicated in how they are structured. and this network causes them to think faster than men. […]

Know love

If we are lucky we find love. If we are blessed we understand it’s meaning. Jenny Lee, Call the Midwife

The Dating Game

This presentation is about 11 minutes long. If you have ever dated, especially in this decade, then take 11 minutes to watch. It is not meant to demean either gender, but to chuckle at both, and validate and normalize the dating experience for all. Hopefully, after a good laugh, it will also serve a purpose […]

Fruits of the Spirit: Love…What if Jesus Loved You the Way You Love Others?

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”― Maya Angelou Do you make people feel loved? What does the most loving person say about this? Matthew 22:36-40English Standard Version (ESV) 36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in […]

Most sublime act

It is simple. “You can sacrifice and not love. But you cannot love and not sacrifice.” ― Kris Vallotton “When you love you wish to do things for. You wish to sacrifice for. You wish to serve.” ― Ernest Hemingway, A Farewell to Arms “The most sublime act is to set another before you.” ― […]