Love Challenge

Love Seeks Resolution – Love Challenge Day 11

Love is not a feeling. Love is a choice. Love doesn’t end because you are angry. Love should remain through all emotions. Love is proven during the conflicts, not when it’s easy. Refusing to seek resolution can confuse your heart, damage your relationship, hinder growth, stifle intimacy… Seek peace. Go. Why is it that when […]

Men’s brains vs. women’s brains – it’s not a competition.

It helps to understand the differences in our brains! Men have about 6 times more gray matter than women. This is the brain’s processing center. Women have about 10 times more white matter than men. Women’s brains are more complicated in how they are structured. and this network causes them to think faster than men. […]

Know love

If we are lucky we find love. If we are blessed we understand it’s meaning. Jenny Lee, Call the Midwife

The Dating Game

This presentation is about 11 minutes long. If you have ever dated, especially in this decade, then take 11 minutes to watch. It is not meant to demean either gender, but to chuckle at both, and validate and normalize the dating experience for all. Hopefully, after a good laugh, it will also serve a purpose […]

Love Somebody – Day 14

Today is Ash Wednesday and Valentine’s Day. May we remember we return to ash, and yet then we are with God. God is love.  You are loved today and always. Be loving to others. A prayer: A tear needs a question -Not a tissue to dry it A broken heart needs a listening ear -Not […]

Love Challenge – How to Prevent Pain and Have Healthy Communication – Day 12

I have been studying a lot about conflict resolution/relationships. My supervisor and his wife had 2 sessions with us on feedback loops to deal with conflict/communication in marriage. Their method is that you sit knee to knee. One person who has the issue uses only I statements about how they feel. No you statements are […]

Fruits of the Spirit: Love…What if Jesus Loved You the Way You Love Others?

“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”― Maya Angelou Do you make people feel loved? What does the most loving person say about this? Matthew 22:36-40English Standard Version (ESV) 36 “Teacher, which is the great commandment in […]