When people first fall in love they can’t stop thinking about one another. Can’t stop thinking what can I do to impress this incredible person who I am falling for? After a while, life sets in and routines happen and comfort is comfortable. “A woman deeply longs for a man to be thoughtful. It is key to making her feel loved. When she speaks a WISE man will listen like a detective to discover the unspoken needs and desires her words imply (or she says clearly). If however, she always has to put the pieces together for him, it steals the opportunity for him to demonstrate that he loves her.” (Kendricks, The Love Dare)
The truth is that men need thoughtfulness too! Not instead of…too. They may not need it to feel as secure as women, but they need it too.
Thoughtfulness thinks before speaking. “The thoughtful nature of love teaches you to engage your mind before engaging your lips. It filters words through a grid of truth and kindness.” (Kendricks)
The challenge today is simply:
Ask your loved one if there is anything you can do for them today. Call or text them throughout the day to let them know they are on your mind.